Dee's Romance Blog

4 Sure Signs That Show A Girl Likes You

2009-04-22T23:10:00.000-07:00

Sign #1: How does she react around you

There are two main reactions you may get here depending on the nature the lady you are dealing with.

A naturally reserved lady would act 'proper' around you. She would make sure she is well dressed and looks neat when you are around. She would be sure to give you frequent smiles, and the greatest 'tell tale' sign would be the shyness she shows when you pass a good comment about her. If she is an extrovert she would be more outspoken, and from the things she says you can begin to deduce how she feels about you.

Sign #2: She pays extra attention to what you say

Attention shows interest. You would not be attentive to something or someone you lack interest in. Does she pay wrapped attention when during your conversations? Does she laugh at your, sometimes not funny, jokes? Does she recall the important things you share about yourself? Does she check up on how you are doing when you are faced with challenges you just told her about?

Sign #3: She pays extra attention to what you do

She would also pay attention to things you do. Like when you get a new hair cut, or when you put together a smashing outfit. If she really likes you she would probably notice even the smallest changes you make to your looks.

She would also show interest in your career, friends and hobbies. She might not love these things, but for your sake she would pay attention to them.

Sign #4: Do you see signs of flirting?

Does she flirt with you? Take note of how she looks out you, how she touches you and the things she says to you. I assure you if there are any traces of flirting there you would know – just trust your male instincts. You should also try some flirting of your own, but back off if she pulls back and try another time.

If you get a yes-yes-yes-yes on the signs listed about, then it is time for you to make a move. No lady is willing to 'like' you forever, so once you see the signs make your move and ask are out, chances are you'll get an answer that would make your day.

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Reasons why you are yet to get a girlfriend and why you might never get one!

2009-04-19T23:40:00.000-07:00

Are you one of those guys who as tried everything imaginable to get a girlfriend? Have you spent days reading books and hours listening to advice on how to land yourself a cute babe without success? Do you know that the cause of your inability to get a girlfriend might just be you? Well it’s time to find out the whole Truth!

Let me start by telling you a short (but very interesting) story. I taught at a youth conference a couple of months back. After the conference I felt really drained and all I could think of was to get out of there as fast as I could and get a good long rest at home.

Anyway, I was on my way out when a huge guy stepped in front of me. He apparently needed my help, and I needed an excuse to get going, and the minute he opened his mouth to speak, I got what I needed! This guy had a terrible mouth odour. It was so distracting that I couldn’t comprehend a single word he spoke. So I did the only logical thing I could think of at that point – I gave him my number so we could speak later – that way I would be able to focus on something other than his mouth odour.

He called me the next morning, and immediately got into a sad tale about how he had been unable to get a girlfriend since … well since he could remember. He then went on to tell me about a fresher in his school that he really likes and how she started avoiding him once she got the hint. “Maybe it is because of your mouth odour!” I blurted, and the line went silent. Well I know I should have been gentler with my approach, but frankly I was getting bored and itching to get the story to its end.

Well that was my short story, and the moral of the story is that poor hygiene sets you many-many steps back in your quest to get a girlfriend. Just like I didn’t want to, no lady wants to spend quality time with a guy whose mouth smells badly, or a guy who smells like he hasn’t had a bath it weeks. And the worst thing about having odours is that most people won’t tell you about it, for the sake of being polite, so you really need to check yourself. So start cleaning up, and see your chances of getting the lady of your dreams increase dramatically!

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Cheers
Dee

How to successfully flirt with a woman – Tips for the Shy Guy

2009-03-13T00:02:00.000-07:00

Have no noticed that some guys have great success when it comes to flirting with women? Mostly these guys end up getting all the pretty ladies while you end up with ‘zap’. Well if that is your story then today is your lucky day because I am about to show you how to put a stop to being the lonely spectator and to spring into serious flirting action.

There are two major reasons why you might have difficulties with flirting with a girl; the first is not knowing how to, and the second is being too shy to get it done. Now for the solution:

Try the subtle flirting technique

With this method you approach the lady as a guy who is interested in just being friends. Get involved in a light and if possible funny conversation. Such a conversation would create a relaxed atmosphere so you do not start to feel tense, and would make more receptive towards you. Your job is done for the day. Repeat this process for about a week.

Moving on …

Now she feels pretty relaxed with you, it is time to move to the next level. Start sending subtle signals. Make lots of eye contact with her when you are talking, touch her hand lightly during conversations, seat close when you get the chance and try holding her hands when walking.
If she shows no signs of disapproval to your actions then it is time to get more daring. Increase the number of times and the length of the touches; try holding her by the waist when you walk and don’t forget the famous goodnight kiss stunt.

Still no signs of disapproval! Then it is time to get into full gear with kisses, dirty talk, petting and the whole works. Now how great does that feel?

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Cheers
Dee

How to Get Your Female Friend to Become Your Girlfriend in Three Easy Steps

2009-03-11T23:27:00.000-07:00

Has this happened to you? You have a really great female friend and each of you considers the other to be ‘just a friend’. Then you wake up one morning and it strikes you that you feel more than just friendship for this lady. Now would you handle this? Keep quiet and have your feeling would hunt you forever or do you just tell her?

I would rather go with the ‘tell her’ option. But be careful getting the ‘tell her’ option right can make the difference between getting a positive response and scaring her off forever.

Here are some proven steps to help you get it right:

Step 1: Watch out for signs that she might also be interested in you

If you notice that she might be interested in becoming your girlfriend, then that makes your job a whole lot easier. Does she treat you more special than she treats her other male friends? Does she say things that suggest that she would like to take the friendship further? Is she displeased when you show more attention to your other female friends, or when you don’t notice something new she’s wearing? Such actions are signs that she has special interest in you. If the signs are convincing enough, then just ask her out, if not, then move on to step 2.

Step 2: Drop the hint

Be subtle but direct with this step. Ask her simple questions like: ‘What kind of guy do you see yourself going out with?’, or ‘Do you see yourself hooking up with a guy like me?’ If you get positive responses then that’s a license to get more daring. If she keeps giving you negative or critical replies, then it’s time for step 3.

Step 3: Be sincere

Going through steps 1 and 2 would already have given her the idea that you want her to become your girlfriend, and now it’s time for you to come out plain. Just ask her to become your girlfriend and you might just be shocked at the answer you get.

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How to Attract a Woman - Using the CAT Method

2008-12-18T13:43:00.000-08:00

Seduction is an art. Some people learn it, and it pays off big time. Other people ignore it and then wonder why they end up alone each night. Which side would you like to be on? I can bet that, like most men, you would rather be on the informed side. It is time to attract the woman of your dreams:

The C.A.T method was once explained to me by an old friend. He said that the method had been very effective for him, he even went an extra mile to prove it to me and it worked!

C.A.T stands for Captivate, Attention, and Touch. To effectively attract a woman just put in all the three elements, and it would happen like clockwork.

Captivate: The first step is to get her attention. There are probably a lot of other men out there trying to attract the same lady you want, so you will need to do something extra to get her attention. Do you have a rich deep voice, fascinating hobby, a great dress sense or good looks - Then use it. There are many things that can get a lady attracted to you, with a little bit of soul searching you should come up with something that works for you.

Attention: Once she finds something captivating about you, it is time to hold her attention. Give her as much time as you can spear. Invite her to the movies, to dinner, to a beach party - and give preference to places where you can have substantial one on one time with her. Be careful not to over do this step, so she doesn't feel suffocated. Give her some breathing space.

Touch: Body language is key. You are spending so much time with her now, how can you tell how she feels about? Try touching her and see how she responds. You can start by touching her hand causally, if she pull away, then try some other time. Once she warms up to holding hands, go a step further, then another step, then on and on until she finally feels completely comfortable with your touches.

It's that simple.

Congratulations, you have now a master of the C.A.T method of attracting a woman!

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Cheers
Dee

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2 Fantastic & Creative Ways to Ask a Girl Out

2008-12-05T11:43:00.000-08:00

So there is this lady you really fancy and you'll like to ask her out on a date. But wait a minute! Do you know that the way you ask a lady out can either ruin things for you or seal the deal?

If a lady senses that you would be an exciting person to hang out with, the chances are that she would definitely say 'yes' to a date with you. So your challenge is to show her how intriguing you are, starting from the way you ask her out. Here are two great suggestions to help you:

1. Send her a personalized invite - Just imagine her opening up what she thinks is a party invitation, just to discover it's an invitation to a candle light dinner for two. You could also put in a poem or add a rose to increase the thrill. Then just seat back and get ready for 'the' phone call.

2. Use the Media - The first time I saw this tip in action, it was used by my friend Mark. Mark liked Joan, and wanted to ask her out. One night he got one of their friends to call her up and ask her to listen to something interesting on radio. Joan turned on her radio, and a few minutes later, Mark called in to the radio program to say how much he liked her, and also to ask her out on their first date. The whole school was buzzing the next day, and as you've probably already guessed Joan said 'yes'!

Apply either of my suggestions, throw in a twist or two, and you are sure to get a big 'YES!' to your question. Now the ball is in your hands, go ahead and plan out a date she'll never forget.

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Now you've got all the information you need, so go out there and get as many dates as you want ;-)

Dee
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How to Get a Girl to Like You, Top 3 Tips

2008-11-12T14:03:00.000-08:00

Okay, let’s get real here: There is probably not much you can do to get a girl to like you if she totally hates your guts. But these 3 tips would definitely boost your ratings with any other lady you want to get to like you...

Tip 1: Invest your time:

A girl starts to like you once she knows that she can always rely on you to give her a bit of your time when she needs it most. For example, if she has to stay up to study for a test and needs a study partner, can you make out time to keep her company? Imagine the goodwill you’ll earn just by this single action, and you may even get to do some studying for yourself. Talk of a win-win.

I know it won’t be possible for you to be available all the time, but just make the time sacrifice as often as you can, and I can assure you that the results would be in your favour.

Caution! You need to know this before you try out this tip:

There are a few ladies out there who see nothing wrong with taking all you’ve got to offer without plans of giving anything in return. Your main aim of investing your time should be for her to like you and probably start to see you as more than just a friend, but you’ve got to be careful not to be taken for a ‘handy man’. Be careful if she starts to demand for your time too frequently, unreasonably, or for all her odd jobs.

A sure sign that this tip is working the way it should would be her willingness to invest her time in you too mostly without you having to ask her for it. She would also try to do something special to say ‘thank you’ for your time.

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Men: Stop Getting Dumped by Understanding the Laws of Attraction

2008-11-09T11:59:00.001-08:00

Here is an all too common scenario: A guy gets to really like a lady, and then he decides to go all out to get her to be his at all cost! He starts by putting everything he’s got into the ‘chase’, but he ends up getting nowhere. Dumped Again! So what just happened?

The most likely answer is that he was working against the laws of attraction. Consistently working against the laws of attraction.is a guaranteed path to getting dumped frequently.

Here’s an explanation of the laws of attraction. in this context: A woman is not attracted to you by choice or because of what you do. It just happens, and there is nothing you can do to change it. So once you can determine that a lady is not attracted to you, the safest thing for you to do would be to move on! Don’t fight it, just move on.

So here’s what happens: When a guy approaches a lady for friendship, within a very short time, sometimes immediately, she can determine whether or not she is attracted to him. If she is, things move smoothly and swiftly. If she is not, she might hang out with him for a while, but she is sure to move on as soon as she meets someone that ‘lights her inner fire’.

A guy who senses that a lady is not attracted to him, may choose to stick around in a bid to convince or persuade her to like him. He would buy her lots of expensive gifts; make dozens of phone calls without receiving any and act as sweet as a tooth fairy. This might work for a while, but in the end, he still gets dumped for someone she is attracted to.

So how can guys put a stop to getting dumped all the time? Determine early enough if she is attracted to you, move on quickly if she is not.

Discover how to get her attracted to you here!

Have you ever wondered why some less than average looking guys tend to attract all the ladies like magnets while you end up with nothing? It’s because attraction is not a function of beauty or money, it’s a function of who you are!

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Fantastic Sex For Couples - Giving and Recieving Feed Back

2008-11-07T13:39:00.000-08:00

Pressures have a tremendous ability to reduce or cause an absence of sexual pleasure. This ultimately reduces a couple's enjoyment and desire for sex. Unfortunately, many couples introduce pressures into their sex lives without even knowing it!

So what causes Sexual Pressure, and how can it be stopped?

The kind of feedback you give your partner during sex could be a major contributing factor to sexual pressure. For example, every time you say things like: 'why aren't you hard yet?', 'Did you come yet?' or 'Can't you last longer?' You are putting pressure on your partner to perform. Agreed, you might have good intentions each time you give such feed backs, but if your approach is wrong, your partner would begin to feel pressured, and your partner would begin to see sex with you as a tedious exercise rather than an enjoyable experience.

So is it wrong to give sex feed backs to your partner?

No. Sex is meant to be enjoyed both by you and your partner. So if your partner starts doing something you don't enjoy or like during intercourse, it would be wrong for you to keep it bottled up. You need to speak out, but always remember that what you say doesn't matter always matter as much as how you say it.

So what is the best way to go about giving feed back?

1. Emphasize positive feedback during intercourse. For example if your partner suddenly starts doing something you enjoy, you could say something like: 'I like that, please don't stop'. With such a statement you are telling your partner what you like, without giving your partner the feeling of being pressured.

2. Refrain from giving negative feedback during sex. If your partner is performing below your expectations, try to enjoy it while it lasts and give your feed back after sex. That way your partner doesn't feel pressured during sex, and would be prepared to do better during your next encounter.

Having fantastic sex is in important factor in building a strong and lasting relationship.

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How To Make A Woman Happy By Fulfilling Her Fantasies

2008-10-17T14:14:00.000-07:00

Have you ever wished you could figure out exactly what the woman in your life was thinking so you could make her happy? Has she ever reacted to you in a very unusually way, while you had absolutely no clue of what suddenly went wrong? Have you ever thought you could find out how women think and what makes them happy? Well read on, because I've got some answers for you!

A common feature among women is that they all have secret fantasies. A Man would normally speak of his fantasies, and even go after them, while women have a tendency to bottle up or even deny their fantasies. One way to keep your woman happy is to decode and present her with her fantasy. Let me make this easy with the following example:

A common f antasy women have is that their partners would openly express their love for them. Women like to show-off every now and then, so if you help her create a show off, and you are sure to make her day. Send her flowers, chocolate, or a gift while she is at work or with her friends (don't wait for Valentine’s Day to do this), and you've created a show for her. Don't forget to include a note stating how much you love her!

Next time you see her you would just marvel at her show of love and appreciation. Now, it's time for some thinking, I bet she probably never told you that she would love it if you made a 'show off' for her, but see the results! Could you just imagine the many other secret fantasies she has, and how helping her fulfil them would radically improve your relationship? It's time to discover: SecretFantasies101

Dee

P.S.: Remember a relationship must be happy to succeed, so you need to put all you've got into making your woman happy. I also recommend that you Learn To Make Her Laugh!

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Sexual Healing For Couples

2008-10-12T00:03:00.000-07:00

It is unknown to many, but sex serves for more than just pleasure and procreation. Sex has powers - healing powers at that, and every couple needs to learn how to utilize the power of sex as a cure, and that's what this article will teach you.

Some time ago, a scientist called Sigmund Freud thought that repressed sexual conflicts could emerge in physical symptoms, and that led to a lot of research about how sex affects us physically.

Over the years, sex therapist have agreed that the energy associated with simple sex exercises could be used as cure to some common diseases such as breathing difficulties, skin problems, gastro intestinal problems, menstrual problems and stress related disorders such as heartburn, neck pain, anxiety and depression. Sex games are also known to alleviate the discomfort of chronic illnesses such as cancer, diabetics and Parkinson's disease.

Sex also helps with emotional problems.

Now this doesn't mean that sick people should plunge into a string of uncontrolled sexual activities. Using sex as a cure involves well researched techniques and Sex games which focus on specific areas of the body and specific illnesses. You might consider seeing a sex therapist for help on relevant techniques for your special needs.

I know some couples consider visiting a sex therapist as taking things too far. Well that's okay, because interested couples can actually learn and use sex games on their own. Sex games are very good for sexually healing, you and your partner need to learn as many as you can even if you feel you don't need it now, it might just be useful some day.

Thanks for Reading

Dee

Don’t know where to take your date to? Find out here!

2008-10-03T10:44:00.000-07:00

So she’s finally agreed to go on a date with you! You are so excited, and you want everything to be perfect. But do you know that simply by choosing a wrong venue for the date, you could ruin the day before it even begins?

Yes, date venues are important! The right venue establishes high receptivity, and gives your date an idea of how much you value her presence. So you need to get it right, and here are some tips to help you choose right.

For a first date, you should have just two aims: One is to get to know her better, and the other is to get her to see the fun side of you. So you should choose a venue which serves your purpose. Great places for first dates include: amusement parks, sporting events, concerts, game arcades or racing events. Get the idea? Wherever you choose, make sure it’s a fun place that a lady can enjoy, and where she can see your fun side. After the fun event, make sure there is still enough time to have a meal together. Then you can achieve your aim of getting to know her better. Ask questions, but don’t be too forward. Keep the conversation light and cheery.

Once your first date goes well, then half the job is done. For subsequent outings your aim should still be to know much more about her, and to show her other sides of you. You need to show her that you are caring, loving, protective, daring etc. So you could take her to dinner at fancy restaurants, or set up candle light dinner at your place. Take her to movies, public attractions, and even shopping if you have the cash flow. By the second or third date you should ask her for places she would love to visit. Add that to your list of date venues, and you should have the next 4 to 5 outings covered.

To be successful at dating you really need to let her see the fun side of you. You need to be good at making women feel relaxed around you. If you are not good at making women laugh then you would definitely miss out.

I am here to make sure you do not miss out. I have done some research, and I have found just the tool you need to help you improve on yourself, and make women laugh. It won’t hurt to try it now! Just check out the link below:

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Happy Dating
Dee

2 Steps to Take Before You Ask A Girl on a Date

2008-09-30T00:55:00.000-07:00

So there’s this girl you secretly like. You’ll give anything to get to know are better, but you don’t even have the slightest idea on where to start. Well this article will reveal to you exactly where to start.

The first step would be to work on yourself – from the inside

Working on the inside:

Determine for sure that you like this girl and that you truly want to get to know her better. There is no point leading her on if you don’t want her.

Are you ready to start dating? A one-day-date doesn’t require much commitment to keep to. But if you are going into this for the long run, you need to ask yourself if you are ready for the time and money commitment involved.

Determine what you’ll say to her. How do you ask her on the date? If you are already pretty good friends with her, you could ask her to the movies, or to some event you know she’ll enjoy being at. If you barely know her, you might want to start with introducing yourself first, then ‘crossing her path’ two to three more times before causally asking her to the movies or some other date. Rehearse what you’ll say to her once the time is right. Go over it until you get it right.

The Second step work on the outside

Working on the outside:

Good looks is one thing, looking good is another. Invest time in your looks. Get good haircuts, wear clean cloths and shoes, and improve on your personal hygiene. This would go a long way in boasting your self-confidence, and will also make the girl more receptive towards you.

Work on your self-confidence. Imagine walking up to her to ask her on a date. You open your mouth you just can’t bring yourself to speak a word. You walk away feeling stupid. This could be avoided by practicing. Stand in front of a mirror and rehearse what you want to tell her. The more you do this the better your confidence level, and the more your chances of getting a date.

Get these two steps wrapped up, and you’ll be ready to ask the girl of your dreams on the date of your dreams.

Dee

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How To Write Passionate Love Letters

2008-09-29T03:14:00.000-07:00

Is there someone you are dying to express your feelings to? Do you find it difficult to just tell that person how you feel? Do you want to emphasize your love? Then why not write a passionate love letter!

Love letters are great because apart from giving you the chance to express your true feelings, they also serve as a constant reminder to the recipient of your love and commitment. Writing a love letter should be quite easy if you have genuine feelings for the other person.

So what’s the secret to writing an excellent love letter?

Be Sincere!

Let’s do a little exercise.

Write down the following:

What do you like about this person, what turns you one about him/her, how does this person make you feel, what are the special things this person does for you?

By now you should have a pretty lengthy list. Your next task would be to weave all these qualities into a dynamic letter.

For example, Let’s say you came up with a list with the following qualities – warm and welcoming, lovely eyes, I feel at peace when I am with you, and pillar of support. Then you could come up with a letter like this:

My dearest Sarah, it feels like summer every time I am with you the warmth I receive every time I gaze into your gorgeous eyes keeps me at peace all day long, I just dread to think of what my life would be like without you my pillar of support. I love you!

This is a very basic example, but I hope you get the message. Just be sincere and creative, and you’ll be well on your way to writing stunning love letters that give stunning results.

Happy Writing

Dee

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Rekindle Your Love Life

2008-09-28T09:11:00.000-07:00

There are many ways to rekindle your love life, but most only induce temporary fire which soon die away. The best approach is to do induce little changes and to build on them consistently.

To rekindle your love life, you must consistently impress your partner by doing the little things you know he/she would appreciate. This must be a continuous process, and since these are little inputs you won’t feel strained, but the results would be tremendous.

Now you need to think about the little things you can do to show your love and consideration to your partner. Example of little things include:

- Setting up a surprise candle light dinner
- Notice and comment on changes in your partner, even a new hairstyle.
- Send a bunch of flowers or chocolates to her office.
- Write a poem on how much you love him/her and send it by post.
- Give your partner a soothing massage after a hard days work.
- Call during the day to say ‘ I was just thinking about you’
- Open the car door for your partner.
- Praise your partner’s good qualities in front of family and friends.
- Call a radio station to give a ‘shout out’ to your partner.

These are just few examples of little things you can do to show love and rekindle the passion in your relationship. Take time to think of other little things you can do to impress your partner. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, but it should be sincere. Your loved one would be touched by your effort, and you would surely see the Passionate Results.

Dee!

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Welcome to My Romance Blog

2008-09-28T00:23:00.000-07:00

Hey,

Welcome to my blog. As you may already have guessed, this blog would be loaded regularly with hot information about dating and how to improve on love, romance and sex in your relationship. So you'll need to come by often.

Enjoy
Dee