Fantastic Sex For Couples - Giving and Recieving Feed Back

Pressures have a tremendous ability to reduce or cause an absence of sexual pleasure. This ultimately reduces a couple's enjoyment and desire for sex. Unfortunately, many couples introduce pressures into their sex lives without even knowing it!

So what causes Sexual Pressure, and how can it be stopped?

The kind of feedback you give your partner during sex could be a major contributing factor to sexual pressure. For example, every time you say things like: 'why aren't you hard yet?', 'Did you come yet?' or 'Can't you last longer?' You are putting pressure on your partner to perform. Agreed, you might have good intentions each time you give such feed backs, but if your approach is wrong, your partner would begin to feel pressured, and your partner would begin to see sex with you as a tedious exercise rather than an enjoyable experience.

So is it wrong to give sex feed backs to your partner?

No. Sex is meant to be enjoyed both by you and your partner. So if your partner starts doing something you don't enjoy or like during intercourse, it would be wrong for you to keep it bottled up. You need to speak out, but always remember that what you say doesn't matter always matter as much as how you say it.

So what is the best way to go about giving feed back?

1. Emphasize positive feedback during intercourse. For example if your partner suddenly starts doing something you enjoy, you could say something like: 'I like that, please don't stop'. With such a statement you are telling your partner what you like, without giving your partner the feeling of being pressured.

2. Refrain from giving negative feedback during sex. If your partner is performing below your expectations, try to enjoy it while it lasts and give your feed back after sex. That way your partner doesn't feel pressured during sex, and would be prepared to do better during your next encounter.

Having fantastic sex is in important factor in building a strong and lasting relationship.

Here are some resources to help you and your partner can take your sex life from a 'good' to an 'out of this would experience':

1. Make sex more exciting by: playing sex games.

2. It's time to put more passion into love making with: 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets.

3. Put a stop to faking orgasms with: The Real Thing.

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