Wednesday, April 22, 2009
4 Sure Signs That Show A Girl Likes You
Sign #1: How does she react around you
There are two main reactions you may get here depending on the nature the lady you are dealing with.
A naturally reserved lady would act 'proper' around you. She would make sure she is well dressed and looks neat when you are around. She would be sure to give you frequent smiles, and the greatest 'tell tale' sign would be the shyness she shows when you pass a good comment about her. If she is an extrovert she would be more outspoken, and from the things she says you can begin to deduce how she feels about you.
Sign #2: She pays extra attention to what you say
Attention shows interest. You would not be attentive to something or someone you lack interest in. Does she pay wrapped attention when during your conversations? Does she laugh at your, sometimes not funny, jokes? Does she recall the important things you share about yourself? Does she check up on how you are doing when you are faced with challenges you just told her about?
Sign #3: She pays extra attention to what you do
She would also pay attention to things you do. Like when you get a new hair cut, or when you put together a smashing outfit. If she really likes you she would probably notice even the smallest changes you make to your looks.
She would also show interest in your career, friends and hobbies. She might not love these things, but for your sake she would pay attention to them.
Sign #4: Do you see signs of flirting?
Does she flirt with you? Take note of how she looks out you, how she touches you and the things she says to you. I assure you if there are any traces of flirting there you would know – just trust your male instincts. You should also try some flirting of your own, but back off if she pulls back and try another time.
If you get a yes-yes-yes-yes on the signs listed about, then it is time for you to make a move. No lady is willing to 'like' you forever, so once you see the signs make your move and ask are out, chances are you'll get an answer that would make your day.
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Sunday, April 19, 2009
Reasons why you are yet to get a girlfriend and why you might never get one!
Are you one of those guys who as tried everything imaginable to get a girlfriend? Have you spent days reading books and hours listening to advice on how to land yourself a cute babe without success? Do you know that the cause of your inability to get a girlfriend might just be you? Well it’s time to find out the whole Truth!
Let me start by telling you a short (but very interesting) story. I taught at a youth conference a couple of months back. After the conference I felt really drained and all I could think of was to get out of there as fast as I could and get a good long rest at home.
Anyway, I was on my way out when a huge guy stepped in front of me. He apparently needed my help, and I needed an excuse to get going, and the minute he opened his mouth to speak, I got what I needed! This guy had a terrible mouth odour. It was so distracting that I couldn’t comprehend a single word he spoke. So I did the only logical thing I could think of at that point – I gave him my number so we could speak later – that way I would be able to focus on something other than his mouth odour.
He called me the next morning, and immediately got into a sad tale about how he had been unable to get a girlfriend since … well since he could remember. He then went on to tell me about a fresher in his school that he really likes and how she started avoiding him once she got the hint. “Maybe it is because of your mouth odour!” I blurted, and the line went silent. Well I know I should have been gentler with my approach, but frankly I was getting bored and itching to get the story to its end.
Well that was my short story, and the moral of the story is that poor hygiene sets you many-many steps back in your quest to get a girlfriend. Just like I didn’t want to, no lady wants to spend quality time with a guy whose mouth smells badly, or a guy who smells like he hasn’t had a bath it weeks. And the worst thing about having odours is that most people won’t tell you about it, for the sake of being polite, so you really need to check yourself. So start cleaning up, and see your chances of getting the lady of your dreams increase dramatically!
Once hygine is sorted, it is time to launch into the advanced techniques for getting the girl of your dreams. Find out here!
Cheers
Dee
Let me start by telling you a short (but very interesting) story. I taught at a youth conference a couple of months back. After the conference I felt really drained and all I could think of was to get out of there as fast as I could and get a good long rest at home.
Anyway, I was on my way out when a huge guy stepped in front of me. He apparently needed my help, and I needed an excuse to get going, and the minute he opened his mouth to speak, I got what I needed! This guy had a terrible mouth odour. It was so distracting that I couldn’t comprehend a single word he spoke. So I did the only logical thing I could think of at that point – I gave him my number so we could speak later – that way I would be able to focus on something other than his mouth odour.
He called me the next morning, and immediately got into a sad tale about how he had been unable to get a girlfriend since … well since he could remember. He then went on to tell me about a fresher in his school that he really likes and how she started avoiding him once she got the hint. “Maybe it is because of your mouth odour!” I blurted, and the line went silent. Well I know I should have been gentler with my approach, but frankly I was getting bored and itching to get the story to its end.
Well that was my short story, and the moral of the story is that poor hygiene sets you many-many steps back in your quest to get a girlfriend. Just like I didn’t want to, no lady wants to spend quality time with a guy whose mouth smells badly, or a guy who smells like he hasn’t had a bath it weeks. And the worst thing about having odours is that most people won’t tell you about it, for the sake of being polite, so you really need to check yourself. So start cleaning up, and see your chances of getting the lady of your dreams increase dramatically!
Once hygine is sorted, it is time to launch into the advanced techniques for getting the girl of your dreams. Find out here!
Cheers
Dee
Friday, March 13, 2009
How to successfully flirt with a woman – Tips for the Shy Guy
Have no noticed that some guys have great success when it comes to flirting with women? Mostly these guys end up getting all the pretty ladies while you end up with ‘zap’. Well if that is your story then today is your lucky day because I am about to show you how to put a stop to being the lonely spectator and to spring into serious flirting action.
There are two major reasons why you might have difficulties with flirting with a girl; the first is not knowing how to, and the second is being too shy to get it done. Now for the solution:
Try the subtle flirting technique
With this method you approach the lady as a guy who is interested in just being friends. Get involved in a light and if possible funny conversation. Such a conversation would create a relaxed atmosphere so you do not start to feel tense, and would make more receptive towards you. Your job is done for the day. Repeat this process for about a week.
Moving on …
Now she feels pretty relaxed with you, it is time to move to the next level. Start sending subtle signals. Make lots of eye contact with her when you are talking, touch her hand lightly during conversations, seat close when you get the chance and try holding her hands when walking.
If she shows no signs of disapproval to your actions then it is time to get more daring. Increase the number of times and the length of the touches; try holding her by the waist when you walk and don’t forget the famous goodnight kiss stunt.
Still no signs of disapproval! Then it is time to get into full gear with kisses, dirty talk, petting and the whole works. Now how great does that feel?
Would you like to discover many more flirting tips and styles? Then check them out Here!
Cheers
Dee
There are two major reasons why you might have difficulties with flirting with a girl; the first is not knowing how to, and the second is being too shy to get it done. Now for the solution:
Try the subtle flirting technique
With this method you approach the lady as a guy who is interested in just being friends. Get involved in a light and if possible funny conversation. Such a conversation would create a relaxed atmosphere so you do not start to feel tense, and would make more receptive towards you. Your job is done for the day. Repeat this process for about a week.
Moving on …
Now she feels pretty relaxed with you, it is time to move to the next level. Start sending subtle signals. Make lots of eye contact with her when you are talking, touch her hand lightly during conversations, seat close when you get the chance and try holding her hands when walking.
If she shows no signs of disapproval to your actions then it is time to get more daring. Increase the number of times and the length of the touches; try holding her by the waist when you walk and don’t forget the famous goodnight kiss stunt.
Still no signs of disapproval! Then it is time to get into full gear with kisses, dirty talk, petting and the whole works. Now how great does that feel?
Would you like to discover many more flirting tips and styles? Then check them out Here!
Cheers
Dee
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
How to Get Your Female Friend to Become Your Girlfriend in Three Easy Steps
Has this happened to you? You have a really great female friend and each of you considers the other to be ‘just a friend’. Then you wake up one morning and it strikes you that you feel more than just friendship for this lady. Now would you handle this? Keep quiet and have your feeling would hunt you forever or do you just tell her?
I would rather go with the ‘tell her’ option. But be careful getting the ‘tell her’ option right can make the difference between getting a positive response and scaring her off forever.
Here are some proven steps to help you get it right:
Step 1: Watch out for signs that she might also be interested in you
If you notice that she might be interested in becoming your girlfriend, then that makes your job a whole lot easier. Does she treat you more special than she treats her other male friends? Does she say things that suggest that she would like to take the friendship further? Is she displeased when you show more attention to your other female friends, or when you don’t notice something new she’s wearing? Such actions are signs that she has special interest in you. If the signs are convincing enough, then just ask her out, if not, then move on to step 2.
Step 2: Drop the hint
Be subtle but direct with this step. Ask her simple questions like: ‘What kind of guy do you see yourself going out with?’, or ‘Do you see yourself hooking up with a guy like me?’ If you get positive responses then that’s a license to get more daring. If she keeps giving you negative or critical replies, then it’s time for step 3.
Step 3: Be sincere
Going through steps 1 and 2 would already have given her the idea that you want her to become your girlfriend, and now it’s time for you to come out plain. Just ask her to become your girlfriend and you might just be shocked at the answer you get.
Still not sure? Then check out more advanced ways go get a girl here!
Cheers
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I would rather go with the ‘tell her’ option. But be careful getting the ‘tell her’ option right can make the difference between getting a positive response and scaring her off forever.
Here are some proven steps to help you get it right:
Step 1: Watch out for signs that she might also be interested in you
If you notice that she might be interested in becoming your girlfriend, then that makes your job a whole lot easier. Does she treat you more special than she treats her other male friends? Does she say things that suggest that she would like to take the friendship further? Is she displeased when you show more attention to your other female friends, or when you don’t notice something new she’s wearing? Such actions are signs that she has special interest in you. If the signs are convincing enough, then just ask her out, if not, then move on to step 2.
Step 2: Drop the hint
Be subtle but direct with this step. Ask her simple questions like: ‘What kind of guy do you see yourself going out with?’, or ‘Do you see yourself hooking up with a guy like me?’ If you get positive responses then that’s a license to get more daring. If she keeps giving you negative or critical replies, then it’s time for step 3.
Step 3: Be sincere
Going through steps 1 and 2 would already have given her the idea that you want her to become your girlfriend, and now it’s time for you to come out plain. Just ask her to become your girlfriend and you might just be shocked at the answer you get.
Still not sure? Then check out more advanced ways go get a girl here!
Cheers
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Thursday, December 18, 2008
How to Attract a Woman - Using the CAT Method
Seduction is an art. Some people learn it, and it pays off big time. Other people ignore it and then wonder why they end up alone each night. Which side would you like to be on? I can bet that, like most men, you would rather be on the informed side. It is time to attract the woman of your dreams:
The C.A.T method was once explained to me by an old friend. He said that the method had been very effective for him, he even went an extra mile to prove it to me and it worked!
C.A.T stands for Captivate, Attention, and Touch. To effectively attract a woman just put in all the three elements, and it would happen like clockwork.
Captivate: The first step is to get her attention. There are probably a lot of other men out there trying to attract the same lady you want, so you will need to do something extra to get her attention. Do you have a rich deep voice, fascinating hobby, a great dress sense or good looks - Then use it. There are many things that can get a lady attracted to you, with a little bit of soul searching you should come up with something that works for you.
Attention: Once she finds something captivating about you, it is time to hold her attention. Give her as much time as you can spear. Invite her to the movies, to dinner, to a beach party - and give preference to places where you can have substantial one on one time with her. Be careful not to over do this step, so she doesn't feel suffocated. Give her some breathing space.
Touch: Body language is key. You are spending so much time with her now, how can you tell how she feels about? Try touching her and see how she responds. You can start by touching her hand causally, if she pull away, then try some other time. Once she warms up to holding hands, go a step further, then another step, then on and on until she finally feels completely comfortable with your touches.
It's that simple.
Congratulations, you have now a master of the C.A.T method of attracting a woman!
If something goes wrong along the line it's either you retrace your steps or my advanced attraction techniques:
Get the Advanced Techniques Here!
Dee
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Friday, December 5, 2008
2 Fantastic & Creative Ways to Ask a Girl Out
So there is this lady you really fancy and you'll like to ask her out on a date. But wait a minute! Do you know that the way you ask a lady out can either ruin things for you or seal the deal?
If a lady senses that you would be an exciting person to hang out with, the chances are that she would definitely say 'yes' to a date with you. So your challenge is to show her how intriguing you are, starting from the way you ask her out. Here are two great suggestions to help you:
1. Send her a personalized invite - Just imagine her opening up what she thinks is a party invitation, just to discover it's an invitation to a candle light dinner for two. You could also put in a poem or add a rose to increase the thrill. Then just seat back and get ready for 'the' phone call.
2. Use the Media - The first time I saw this tip in action, it was used by my friend Mark. Mark liked Joan, and wanted to ask her out. One night he got one of their friends to call her up and ask her to listen to something interesting on radio. Joan turned on her radio, and a few minutes later, Mark called in to the radio program to say how much he liked her, and also to ask her out on their first date. The whole school was buzzing the next day, and as you've probably already guessed Joan said 'yes'!
Apply either of my suggestions, throw in a twist or two, and you are sure to get a big 'YES!' to your question. Now the ball is in your hands, go ahead and plan out a date she'll never forget.
Need help with planning great and fun dates that she'll never forget? Then check out this link:
300 Creative Dates Ideas
Have you ever wondered, why some less than average looking guy seems to get all the gorgeous girls while you end up with nothing? You can now discover all his secrets to getting loads of dates here:
Lesson #1: How to Approach & Attract Women
Lesson #2: How to Make Her go Crazy for You!
Now you've got all the information you need, so go out there and get as many dates as you want ;-)
Dee
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If a lady senses that you would be an exciting person to hang out with, the chances are that she would definitely say 'yes' to a date with you. So your challenge is to show her how intriguing you are, starting from the way you ask her out. Here are two great suggestions to help you:
1. Send her a personalized invite - Just imagine her opening up what she thinks is a party invitation, just to discover it's an invitation to a candle light dinner for two. You could also put in a poem or add a rose to increase the thrill. Then just seat back and get ready for 'the' phone call.
2. Use the Media - The first time I saw this tip in action, it was used by my friend Mark. Mark liked Joan, and wanted to ask her out. One night he got one of their friends to call her up and ask her to listen to something interesting on radio. Joan turned on her radio, and a few minutes later, Mark called in to the radio program to say how much he liked her, and also to ask her out on their first date. The whole school was buzzing the next day, and as you've probably already guessed Joan said 'yes'!
Apply either of my suggestions, throw in a twist or two, and you are sure to get a big 'YES!' to your question. Now the ball is in your hands, go ahead and plan out a date she'll never forget.
Need help with planning great and fun dates that she'll never forget? Then check out this link:
300 Creative Dates Ideas
Have you ever wondered, why some less than average looking guy seems to get all the gorgeous girls while you end up with nothing? You can now discover all his secrets to getting loads of dates here:
Lesson #1: How to Approach & Attract Women
Lesson #2: How to Make Her go Crazy for You!
Now you've got all the information you need, so go out there and get as many dates as you want ;-)
Dee
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Wednesday, November 12, 2008
How to Get a Girl to Like You, Top 3 Tips
Okay, let’s get real here: There is probably not much you can do to get a girl to like you if she totally hates your guts. But these 3 tips would definitely boost your ratings with any other lady you want to get to like you...
Tip 1: Invest your time:
A girl starts to like you once she knows that she can always rely on you to give her a bit of your time when she needs it most. For example, if she has to stay up to study for a test and needs a study partner, can you make out time to keep her company? Imagine the goodwill you’ll earn just by this single action, and you may even get to do some studying for yourself. Talk of a win-win.
I know it won’t be possible for you to be available all the time, but just make the time sacrifice as often as you can, and I can assure you that the results would be in your favour.
Caution! You need to know this before you try out this tip:
There are a few ladies out there who see nothing wrong with taking all you’ve got to offer without plans of giving anything in return. Your main aim of investing your time should be for her to like you and probably start to see you as more than just a friend, but you’ve got to be careful not to be taken for a ‘handy man’. Be careful if she starts to demand for your time too frequently, unreasonably, or for all her odd jobs.
A sure sign that this tip is working the way it should would be her willingness to invest her time in you too mostly without you having to ask her for it. She would also try to do something special to say ‘thank you’ for your time.
Have you ever wondered why some less than average looking guys tend to attract all the ladies like magnets while you end up with nothing? It's because attraction is not a function of beauty or money, it's a function of what you do, and how you do it!
Find out how to make yourself totally irresistible to ladies here!
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Tip 1: Invest your time:
A girl starts to like you once she knows that she can always rely on you to give her a bit of your time when she needs it most. For example, if she has to stay up to study for a test and needs a study partner, can you make out time to keep her company? Imagine the goodwill you’ll earn just by this single action, and you may even get to do some studying for yourself. Talk of a win-win.
I know it won’t be possible for you to be available all the time, but just make the time sacrifice as often as you can, and I can assure you that the results would be in your favour.
Caution! You need to know this before you try out this tip:
There are a few ladies out there who see nothing wrong with taking all you’ve got to offer without plans of giving anything in return. Your main aim of investing your time should be for her to like you and probably start to see you as more than just a friend, but you’ve got to be careful not to be taken for a ‘handy man’. Be careful if she starts to demand for your time too frequently, unreasonably, or for all her odd jobs.
A sure sign that this tip is working the way it should would be her willingness to invest her time in you too mostly without you having to ask her for it. She would also try to do something special to say ‘thank you’ for your time.
Have you ever wondered why some less than average looking guys tend to attract all the ladies like magnets while you end up with nothing? It's because attraction is not a function of beauty or money, it's a function of what you do, and how you do it!
Find out how to make yourself totally irresistible to ladies here!
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